I need help. Can Surface control my music world?

Need some help from the forums.

Is there a way to play all the music from my collection stored on an external HDD, and the music from my Xbox Music pass on my reciever and control it from my Surface RT?

Windows 8 Pro conected to my reciever. HDMI (External HDD conected to this computer Drive L.)

Xbox 360 conected to my reciever.

Microsoft Surface RT.

They all "see" one another through Wi-Fi.

I want to use my Surface to control my colection and music pass combined, to play through my reciever. Remote desktop is slow and unusable.

Home sharing is on.

Thanks in advance for the suggestions.