iMessage Texting - Collateral Damage

As my extended family and friends have increasingly moved to iOS - i am noticing a huge uptick in disjointed and strangely ordered SMS Messages from individuals that I am attributing to the increased use of group texting through iMessage. Anyone else encountering a similar issue on Jelly Bean and know of a stock fix or just interested in sharing in the frustration that iOS users have little perception of the SMS chaos they're causing?