Will the Catholic Church ever move into the 21st century??

I just do not understand why they A. Do not let women be priests, bishops, cardinals or popes. B. Are against homosexuals. Last Sunday my priest during his homily was talking about how we need to respect everyone regardless of their religion, race, or sexual orientation. That's great and all but, you still don't want them to get married. I personally think Jesus would not mind if homosexuals marry. I mean Jesus told people to love everyone no matter what and, I really do not think he would be against someone not having the same rights as someone else. I'm not going to get into the sexual abuse thing because well we would be here all day. If you want to do so in the comments, feel free to go to town with it.