Xbox360 vs PS3 for GTA V

I want to play in GTA V before November, so I need to choose between Xbox360 or PS3.

1. I once had Xbox360, never tried PS3. Xbox's controller seems more comfortable to me then the PS3's. Is it? Or no real difference?

2. Rockstar says that it showed GTA V on PS3, so it kinda runs better on it? I know I need to wait for tests, but should it?

3. Are there any recent epic games I should base my choice on? Like Unchartered 3?

4. Which one is better in terms of just a hardware? Like playing movies and other stuff?

5. Choice without no question?