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Ask Stoya: What do women want?

Ask Stoya: What do women want?


Here's a hint: we don't all want the same thing

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The internet and technology have totally changed sex and relationships, we know you — you adults, anyway, this column is not for children! — have questions about the world of sex. In order to answer them, we've asked our friend Stoya — a professional sex-haver — to field any inquiries. You can write to her at


Are you at least 18 years old?