After waking up each morning and lying in bed, looking at my phone for way too long, I’ll finally gather the courage to get up. I’ll reach over to my bedside table and pick up the light remote (1), sliding the lights on, then changing the color from magenta to white and turning it up to maximum brightness.
I’ll go downstairs, grab the universal remote for the living room TV (2) and turn on First Take while I drink coffee. I’ll head back upstairs to my office and wake up my laptop using my Bluetooth trackpad (3). I’ll play Wordle, entering each guess with my Bluetooth keyboard (4), and then it’s time to shower, get dressed, and get out of the house.
I live in the suburbs, so if I want to go anywhere, that means driving, which means pressing the button on my keychain to unlock my car (5). I’ll run errands, return home, and bring the groceries in through the garage. To open it, I use the remote (6) that lives in my glove box. I’ll put everything away, eat some lunch, procrastinate, work, and procrastinate some more. When I’ve given up on work for the day, I’ll go into my bedroom and turn on the TV (7) and watch something on the Game Show Network while I straighten my hair. Whenever my fiancé is done with his work, we’ll convene downstairs, turn on the TV, and then press the PlayStation button in the center of the controller (8) and proceed, as of late, to play several hours of Ghost of Tsushima.
In theory, the sheer number of these little devices that I interact with on a daily basis seems inefficient, even overwhelming
The story of my everyday life can be told through all the remote controls I use. In theory, the sheer number of these little devices that I interact with on a daily basis seems inefficient, even overwhelming. But I’ve found that using separate remotes that each have a distinct purpose and do not overlap with one another helps me remember the pleasure of living in a high-tech era.
For many years now, the touchscreen has reigned supreme. Life in 2023 involves relentless use of various technology, interfaces, and screens, all ostensibly meant to make things easier for you. But for me, they fail more often than they succeed. There is, for example, no way the self-checkout at the supermarket simplifies the process of buying groceries. Why would my gym give me something as easy and simple as a plastic membership card when they can force me to download a shitty app instead? And while I know some people like their voice assistants, I find the ominous presence of Alexa, Siri, and the nameless Google Assistant creepy, invasive, and more effort than they’re worth.
The touchscreen on my iPhone is full of infinite possibilities — maybe it will pull me into a primo Wikipedia wormhole, but it also runs the risk of sucking me into a corner of Twitter where people are being horrible to one another. There are so many variables. Meanwhile, all my gorgeous little remote controls are single-purpose. When I use them, I know exactly what is going to happen, and because of that, they are able to reliably and authentically inspire joy in my stupid 21st-century existence. When I pick up my light remote and change the vibe of the room from cyan to magenta, I feel legitimately grateful to be alive today, in an age where I can seamlessly change the vibe in my house by using a little device to alter the color and brightness of the lights. My ancestors could never.
When I was a kid, I never envisioned that my future would include a house with a backyard, the sort of normie existence that involves observing trash day every Monday and driving into the city on the weekends
There are the remotes I love, not because of the device itself but because of the meaning behind it. I find using my garage remote and car keys (actually a remote) totally delightful because it makes me feel like a real suburban adult, like I saw in the movies when I was growing up in Manhattan. When I was a kid, I never envisioned that my future would include a house with a backyard, the sort of normie existence that involves observing trash day every Monday and driving into the city on the weekends. Each time I click the button to unlock my car and hear that little beep, I think about how I really like the life I’ve built for myself, that things don’t always end up the way you planned, which is a good thing.
My downstairs TV remote has the most emotional significance to me of the lot. It’s the end result of one of my fiancé’s Rube Goldbergian projects, wherein he set out to condense the television remote, the Roku remote, and the HDMI switcher into one remote — a task I told him was totally unnecessary since I obviously don’t mind having a lot of different remotes. Nevertheless, he is a certified tinkerer, committed to taking on this absurdly complicated scheme to turn three remotes into one, which involved purchasing another universal remote that he integrated into the one we currently use. Sometimes when I pick up the remote, I’m like, “Damn, I really love this guy.”
(For the sake of transparency, I must tell you that my remotes don’t always inspire contentment — for example, I loathe the remote for the TCL Roku TV in my bedroom, which is unreliable and always pathetically begging me to try out using voice commands.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about how annoying and life-consuming technology can be. But the relationships I’ve developed with my remote controls remind me of the upside of living in this age of infinite devices. The world can feel scary and alienating and overwhelming. I know that everything is going to be just fine as long as I face it head-on, enlightened like a thousand-armed Buddhist statue, each hand clutching a different remote control.